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15.02.20, 19:32:00

„Stark sein musste ich schon als kleines Mädchen“, sagte die Frau im Coaching.


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Als Kinder spüren wir nicht, welche wichtige Rolle im Familiensystem wir zu spielen haben. Aber mit zunehmendem Alter kann uns diese Rolle immer mehr belasten. Sie wird zu einer Bürde, die unsere Freiheit, zu wählen, welches Leben zu uns passt, einschränken.

Anna O. hatte früh gelernt, auf Erwartungen anderer zu reagieren.


„Als ich zwölf war, kam meine Mutter wegen eines Unfalls ins Krankenhaus und blieb dort drei Monate. In der Zeit übernahm ich viele ihrer Aufgaben, denn die Oma war für vieles schon zu alt. Ich lernte in Windeseile kochen und versorgte die ganze Familie. Wenn mal eine Freundin kam, um mich zum Spielen abholen wollte, habe ich gesagt, dass ich dafür keine Zeit habe.
Das war eine harte Zeit, aber der Stolz meines Vaters, wenn er von seiner ‚tapferen Anna‘ sprach, belohnte mich für die ganze Anstrengung.“


Die Möglichkeit, Nein zu sagen oder sich gegen eine Pflicht aufzulehnen, kam ihr nicht in den Sinn. Stattdessen genießt sie das süße Gift der Bewunderung ihrer Stärke und Belastbarkeit. Sie loben die Tatsache, dass das Mädchen nie aufgibt, niemanden zu brauchen scheint und fähig ist, allein durchs Leben zu gehen.

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    April 06, 2020, 20:44
    Family is so important. Thank you for painting the family in such a positive light!

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    April 06, 2020, 21:10
    Family is everything! Love this article

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    Sometimes our children don't know the power they truly hold in the family relationship.

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    That's inspirational. Very timely in the last celebration of women's month.
    I love this line:
    "The possibility of saying no or rebelling against a duty never occurred to her. Instead, she enjoys the sweet poison of admiration for her strength and resilience. They praise the fact that the girl never gives up, doesn't seem to need anyone and is able to go through life alone."
    Thank you very much.

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    May 08, 2020, 17:20
    thanks for the share

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    What a brave girl. This experience can make her more mature and bring her success in the future.

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    I remember as a child, my mom is always there in every event and activities I joined in but just then as I grow up the responsibilities on me are getting bigger.

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    I would say that its good to be a child because you have the freedom to do what you want without the responsibility on your shoulder. But just when your learned to work and have all the responsibility it is tiring as well.

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    I feel real emotions on this post. I have undergone the same thing. I got full responsibility of my parents to my siblings after they have divorced. But somehow thankful that we were able to survive it and we are now all successful.

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